As many other people do around this time of year, I have started reflecting on the past twelve months. One of my areas of reflection has been around, \u201cWhat has happened that has most surprised me?\u201d Within a work perspective this has been, without doubt, the evidence of the power of belief. I have worked with many people this year \u2013 both on a one to one basis and in groups \u2013 who have demonstrated what can be achieved through believing in themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I have known this to be the case for a long time, but I haven\u2019t previously witnessed so many powerful achievements that have quite obviously meant so much to the people concerned. And I have had so much joy in being able to share their huge senses of achievement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What is sad, perhaps, is that for some of these people they have had to wait until their 40\u2019s to have that belief \u2013 or should I say regain that belief?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When we are born we are surely positive. As we grow up, we constantly try out new things, learn what we can do and what we cannot (yet) do. And then we are influenced by people who we think know best \u2013 those people who impact on us in our childhoods. And that\u2019s where children can go in different directions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is evident from the UK reality TV shows I was discussing in my last post. Rebecca from the X Factor has a wonderful voice, but she didn\u2019t believe that 6 months ago. Over the duration of the Programme as she has constantly been told how and why her voice is so good, viewers have witnessed her grow in belief and personal stature. As a consequence, her performances have improved. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If we then turn our attention to The Apprentice, we have a group of contestants who generally have huge belief in their capabilities \u2013 so much so that when they are \u2018Fired\u2019 they often believe that Lord Sugar has made a significant mistake! There was a great moment a couple of weeks ago when one contestant \u2013 Stuart \u2013 thought that he was going to be fired, and so he made an impassioned plea. Within it, he said how great he was, what he could for Lord Sugar and how much money he would make for him \u2013 but there was no evidence. What made it particularly powerful was how easily a hardened business person like Sugar was \u2018taken in\u2019 \u2013 evidenced by his personal anger the following week at having been \u2018taken in\u2019. But it was a great demonstration of what can be achieved through the power of belief in yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Finally, another TV programme in the listings caught my eye. This was, \u201cBelieve \u2013 the Eddie Izzard Story\u201d. This turned out to be a very touching and intimate portrait of the comedian\u2019s life so far. It detailed how he kept being told he wasn\u2019t good enough by various people and the constant knocks he had received until his late 20\u2019s, and the self-belief and determination he displayed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At one point he reflected on his approach. \u201cIt\u2019s what I call the madness. If you think you can perform and the whole world is saying that you can\u2019t perform, then you\u2019re obviously mad. If you hold on to that madness, and you hold on to it, and you hold on to it, and you hold on to it, for years and later it comes good and you can actually perform it proves that you weren\u2019t mad. You just have to surround that little bit of belief and hold on to it for as long as it takes\u201d. And later he added, \u201cIf fear gets in the way, you just push fear back\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What do you want to achieve next year, and do you believe you can achieve it? And if you haven\u2019t yet got the requisite self-belief, how are you going to re-discover it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Paul<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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