Reality. What is it? What is real? As the late John Lennon (and I can remember exactly where I was and what I was doing when I heard of his death 30 years ago this week) once said, \u201cReality leaves a lot to the imagination\u201d. So it does, because nothing is real \u2013 he also said that, too, but that was when he was taking us through his dream of Strawberry Fields, and I mean when we have all our faculties about us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What I think of and describe as being \u2018real\u2019 will be my reality. The person at the same concert, walking down the road with me, or watching the same film will have their own experience or perception of what they see as being real \u2013 and it will be different to mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This then perhaps explains Walkers\u2019 Crisps view of what is real. I was looking at a packet of their Thai Sweet Chilli flavoured Sensations crisps this week, and it proudly states on the front, \u201cMade with real ingredients\u201d. Isn\u2019t everything made from real ingredients? I checked out the ingredients and they include Fructose, Hydrolysed Soya Protein and Colour. I suppose they are real, but I still think it\u2019s a strange line to put on the packet. What do they think people will interpret as meaning \u2018real\u2019?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Which brings me to my third reality check \u2013 the one called Reality TV. I\u2019m a Celebrity has just finished and The Apprentice is nearing its conclusion \u2013 as is the X Factor, although some people will not see this as Reality TV. I have to admit I enjoy these programmes. The reason I enjoy them is because we see \u2018real\u2019 people \u2013 or, more accurately, people in their \u2018real\u2019 states.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When we are young children, we are at our most real, I would suggest. Then, as we grow up we are told how to behave in different situations, and then we go to work and have rules, cultures and procedures to conform with. How real are we by this point?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
With I\u2019m a Celebrity, we have people who have been in the public eye to some degree (I would stop short of calling them celebrities) and who have experience of how they should appear or what they should say \u2013 but this has to slip \u2018in the jungle\u2019. We see more of their real sides \u2013 particularly with the increased pressures of tasks, lack of food and living so closely to other strangers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And with The Apprentice, we have unknown people who are put in pressure situations \u2013 leading to them saying things they probably regret when they see them again. But these are closer to their real personalities interacting with each other than the facades they may wish to show.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And so these two shows give great examples for training sessions \u2013 they are a rich seem of television for using to help people understand management, dealing with conflict, presenting, listening, communicating, building rapport and so many more skills. So much better than the DVDs we can buy \u2013 because the TV examples are so close to reality. Watch them with that in mind \u2013 you will be surprised at how many good examples (good examples for learning, often bad examples of the skills!) you will find.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Paul<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Reality. What is it? What is real? As the late John Lennon (and I can remember exactly where I was and what I was doing when I heard of his death 30 years ago this week) once said, \u201cReality leaves a lot to the imagination\u201d. So it does, because nothing is real \u2013 he also […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8,30],"tags":[203,243,244],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=229"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":230,"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229\/revisions\/230"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/breathe-pod.org.uk\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}